{"id":3066,"date":"2016-11-08T14:47:21","date_gmt":"2016-11-08T23:47:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/communications.blogs.kpbsd.k12.ak.us\/?p=3066"},"modified":"2016-11-08T14:47:21","modified_gmt":"2016-11-08T23:47:21","slug":"commit-respond-conflict-positive-manner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kpbsd.org\/schools\/comm-test\/2016\/11\/08\/commit-respond-conflict-positive-manner\/","title":{"rendered":"Commit to Respond to Conflict in a Positive Manner"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><span style=\"color: #000080\"><strong>Mountain View Elementary Celebrates School-Wide Commitment to Responding to Conflict in A Positive Manner<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/communications.blogs.kpbsd.k12.ak.us\/files\/2016\/11\/DSC_0245-s.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3067\" src=\"http:\/\/communications.blogs.kpbsd.k12.ak.us\/files\/2016\/11\/DSC_0245-s.jpg\" alt=\"dsc_0245-s\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nNobody likes to get their feelings hurt!\u00a0 While most of us mask the hurt pretty well, it negatively effects affects us in a variety of ways. Most certainly it affects students who may have a hard time learning if they remain focused on a negative interaction with a peer or teacher.<br \/>\nWith that realization in mind Mountain View Elementary developed and implemented a Positive Responses to Conflict Curriculum for students Kindergarten through 5<sup>th<\/sup> grade. All adults in the school have also been trained to model these basic practices in their conflicts with students and each other. At a recent assembly the school celebrated the completion of the annual seven week rotation of teaching grade level appropriate lessons on kindness and the six basic positive responses to conflict.<br \/>\nStaff members entertained students and provided reinforcement for the following positive responses to conflict:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Assume positive intent by asking clarifying questions in a positive manner, these questions often begin with \u201cDid you know\u2026.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Politely ask someone to stop a behavior and tell them why.<\/li>\n<li>Wait and cool off followed by using another strategy.<\/li>\n<li>Simply let it go.<\/li>\n<li>Compromise and share.<\/li>\n<li>Talk it out using a structured process including: calming strategies, positive body language, and script prompts.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/communications.blogs.kpbsd.k12.ak.us\/files\/2016\/11\/DSC_0288-s.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3068\" src=\"http:\/\/communications.blogs.kpbsd.k12.ak.us\/files\/2016\/11\/DSC_0288-s.jpg\" alt=\"dsc_0288-s\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n\u201cThe Conflict Wheel\u201d is a graphic designed by Mountain View staff to promote the use of these strategies. The conflict wheel can be found on posters in all all rooms of the building, on a large sign on the playground and on lanyards carried by teachers while on recess duty.<br \/>\nA smaller version of the conflict wheel, with a description of the 6 strategies is discussed with and given to families at open house and conferences to promote its use at home. In April 2016, 87% of the 189 Mountain View Elementary families who returned a survey stated they utilized the 6 positive responses to strategies to resolve conflicts at home.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/communications.blogs.kpbsd.k12.ak.us\/files\/2016\/11\/IMG_5556-s.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3069\" src=\"http:\/\/communications.blogs.kpbsd.k12.ak.us\/files\/2016\/11\/IMG_5556-s.jpg\" alt=\"img_5556-s\" width=\"500\" height=\"667\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mountain View Elementary Celebrates School-Wide Commitment to Responding to Conflict in A Positive Manner Nobody likes to get their feelings hurt!\u00a0 While most of us mask the hurt pretty well, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/kpbsd.org\/schools\/comm-test\/2016\/11\/08\/commit-respond-conflict-positive-manner\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Commit to Respond to Conflict in a Positive Manner&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":126,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[273,693],"class_list":["post-3066","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-school-stories","tag-conflict-resolution","tag-mountain-view-elementary"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kpbsd.org\/schools\/comm-test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3066","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kpbsd.org\/schools\/comm-test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kpbsd.org\/schools\/comm-test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kpbsd.org\/schools\/comm-test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/126"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kpbsd.org\/schools\/comm-test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3066"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kpbsd.org\/schools\/comm-test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3066\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kpbsd.org\/schools\/comm-test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3066"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kpbsd.org\/schools\/comm-test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3066"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kpbsd.org\/schools\/comm-test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3066"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}